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It is not my place to make such recommendations. I am, however, a passionate advocate for your relationship in whatever form it is supposed to take. When partners become connected without defense, whatever is supposed to happen will happen. In my experience, that almost always means staying together.

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I recommend anyone coming commit to four sessions only. That's enough for you to decide if we're a good fit and if it's worth your time and money to continue with me. Most people are able to make that kind of commitment. If your partner is unwilling to make a four session commitment, I recommend you meet with me or another individual therapist to explore your options.

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Yes. In most partnerships there's usually one who's less verbal. Don't worry about it. The dialogue method you'll learn helps the closed one to open more and the open one to learn to be patient. Men in particular respond well to the structure of this method and their partners are frequently amazed at how much they're willing to talk.

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The two most significant differences in my opinion are: (a) seeing the couple's power struggle from the perspective of the meaningful growth trying to happen rather than dysfunctional behavior to be avoided and (b) the use of the "intentional dialogue" which allows partners to truly listen and feel heard.